If you're uncertain of what happened at your first date, you need someone to help you figure it out. That’s the reason we wrote this mini guide; we’ve collected several first date tips for men in order to clear all the uncertainties and know how it really went. Usually, if you’re uncertain it means there are two possible actions : you have several good reasons to believe it went wrong or it’s just your imagination playing with you. Either ways you should still call her and invite her someplace again. Let’s try to think back on how the date went.
Talking to her. Try to remember every moment when you were speaking with her. Who talked more, you did or she? If she talked more that means she was feeling comfy and communicative. If you talked more, was she keeping eye-contact with you, was she smiling, laughing? If she did then it's a good situation.
If you asked her questions, did she respond easily, or did she frown, give you a funny look as if it’s a cliché, typical or boring thing to ask? Did she want to find out more about you? If she asks you questions that’s an indicator of interest. Did any awkward quiet moments take place during the conversation? You should avoid these moments as much as you can. If you can’t find anything to say, try to look around maybe you discover something funny nearby to talk about.
What does her body say?. How was she moving her hands, was she standing stiff, or was she waving her hands a lot? If she was waving a lot, that’s a good sign, it means she wants to tell you more. If she was playing with her hair while talking with you, that’s another good sign. A bad sign is when she stands still with her arms closed; she’s likely indifferent or feeling uncomfortable. If you tried to loosen he up with a funny joke, that’s a great way to make her feel more comfortable. Was she leaning in to you when talking, or was she leaning back and just nodding her head to everything you we’re saying? Leaning in to you is a good sign.
Touching stage. Did you touch her, and if so, how did she respond? If you didn't even try to touch her, that's unquestionably a minus. If you touched her hand and she responded well, that’s a good sign. Did you try to kiss her, if so, how did she react? You don’t have to kiss her the first date but sometimes it’s OK to let her know you want to kiss her, so if you tried and she pushed you away, that’s not necessarily a bad thing, it just means she's not prepared for a kiss yet.
Examine all these first date tips for men and think for a second. If you think you didn’t mess up much then call her and ask her out again. You could return for those
second date tips so go ahead and do it. Good luck!
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